This was supposed to be an ordinary day.

Friend A : Do you heard about the latest gossip? (in a very loud and disturbing voice)

Friend B : Oh, it's freaking hot story! How did you not know? (rather as an announcement)

My curious voice : Hey, Hey, what are you guys talking about?

Friend A : Hah! This fella is not updated yet lah!
My curious voice : Ok, just shoot me
Friend B : There are new hot pictures in our student sharing network! Here, I already downloaded all of them and even use this picture as my handphone's wallpaper! (sliding his Nokia Expressing Music phone)
My curious voice : My GOD! I know this girl! (and literally jumping in my chair) I must bluetooth them!

Do you understand the conversation above? I hope you do but just in case you misinterpreted this youthful dialogs, may I do the honor to make them clear to you. We just found out the next big thing to be proud off with our university, we also have the naked pictures being exposed in the internet! Yes, yes I know. Now, the modern trend has arrived in our university. Feeling proud of it? Why not?

Just as long it is not my explicit picture circulating in students storage, there should be not problem at all. - quote from an innocent student

I spent most of the lecture that day wondering whether the girl already know her pictures are in the hand of other four thousand plus students. What would she does after this? Can I still see her playing netball every evening from now on? Or she will be forced to stop her study? Only time can tell.

That is the problem when you are sending your personal pictures to others in a conscience of believing the best from everyone. Especially when you are in love with that person who may only use this for his/her own advantage. Love as we all know will not always end with a happy ending.

However, this also make me to think, what if you already sent your naked pictures to irresponsible hands? If I were you, I will have a water marks on those pictures which stated my url (http://hot-shit-form.blogspot.com/). At least, you will be famous and earn hundreds of new visitors. Even lucky, thousands of them. I read about this technique in the Become Famous For Dummies book. You should check it out!

What if you just love your body so much that you are cannot help but to take your own pictures? (I done that couples of time too) If you have a hot body, why not you flaunt it? After all, a picture is worth a thousand words.

I already made my point about this matter in Naked, nude, stripped and sex. Just a remainder, it was only my opinion.

"The fear that seeing naked people in some way harms children is not supported, however, by academic research. The small handful of studies on this topic in psychology and sociology have shown, instead, that children reared in an atmosphere containing family social nudity may benefit from the practice." -Mark Storey in Children, Social Nudity and Scholarly Study

One thing for sure is that when your explicit pictures or videos start being passing around, famous and important person will suffer the most. For example, Malaysia Health Minister has to step down after a sex video with his 'personal friend' was sold in the black market. (click here to read more) He was later apologies for his indecent behavior, but his political career has came to the end. Others like Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson, the video will only just help them shot to fame.

If your pictures are posted in internet, how do you react? Does it wrong to send your naked pictures to others? And whether the responsible person who posted those pictures in the internet is bad? How about people (like me) who help to distribute them to other friends? Moreover, what about self obsess person who just like to take pictures of their body? Some people said that these people are socially dysfunctional, do you agree with them?

Now, I need to rest my head down. I hope that you will answer those questions because right now I must reformat my thought. Not every day is like today. And this was supposed to be an ordinary day. *sigh*


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I could write you a letter,
But what would it say?
Could it make things better?
Would it make everything okay?

I could write you a song,
Full of love hope and grace.
Would you tell me what went wrong?
Could you say it to my face?

What is a friend? We all know a lot of people, we call them acquaintances. We work with a lot of people, mostly referred to as co-workers. We also have come across colleagues, classmates, roommates, neighbors and even family! What, then, makes them stand out as a friend? What promotes them to the next level?

Could it be time? If you have known someone since elementary school, and you are now a college graduate, is that person a friend? Does time automatically decide ones status? Even if you only share festive cards once a year? Are they still a friend due to their 'renewal of friendship' once a year at holidays? Is their holiday card simply a way to tell the other person, that you are still in the game, therefore still your friend? And is this done, so that in the future, if you need something this friend has to offer, you can tell them that you are their oldest friend, so you owe me? What are old friends for?

The tender words are spoken
Each body and soul bared
Told secrets over endless days
Often doing more than dared

New world beyond my door
With intrigued and intensity
Now we have shared our hearts
A bond now made it permanently

My greatest fear that I will lost most of my memories about my oldest friends. Some of them are still well keep, but others are deteriorating away. It was like my new memories of friends keep pushing my old memories far back in my vault of mind. I miss their presence but it was like ages ago. I afraid to call or meet them because I don't think we will have anything to talk about. But I do know one thing, I will do whatever it takes to keep them inside.

It took us little time and effort
The bonding as strong as glue
I now promise never to untie
The strings I have tied with you

The understanding of each other
Breaths to take, we breathe the air
As the relationship interchanges
Knowing our loving hearts are there

I have met a lot of friends from my heavily involve what so called online networking sites through Myspace, Facebook, Friendster and a lot more less famous sites. Adding all of them together, I believe it will accumulates more than 3000 friends.

We are usually 'friends' with them every time we're online, have their screen names on instant messenger but rarely IM them, and you would stop and talk with them for a few minutes if you ran into them on the street somewhere randomly (like, 'whoa, what are you up to these days? ahhh, cool! cya!'), but you wouldn't take the time to have coffee or dinner with them. But do all of them you call friends? No, we call them good acquaintances. You only meet them in cyberspace but you wouldn't really have anything to talk to them about if you are not in a large social setting.

The greatest Gift,
in the end
was a family
and a Friend.
An ear to lend
a hand to hold,
and you,
my Friend -
your heart of gold.

Finally, I have finished this post. It does took me a lot of time (plus, I suddenly got a fever couple days before) but I hope it will makes you to think and asking yourself, how do you define a friend??


Poems taken from :

• Promise Never To Untie by Hope
• I could by Kaunie Hagensen
• The Greatest Gift by Daisy

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Finally I have taken my Engineers In Society test this morning. I actually planned to post about friendship this Monday, but I prefer to publish this post first.

An award is something given to a person or a group of people to recognize excellence in a certain field; a certificate of excellence. I were given an award by one of my loyal readers, Bluedreamer27 (really, I don't have any problem with the typing error :) Thank you very much. I really appreciate it.

I gave myself a thought whether or not to give other blogs my personal award, but I finally decided to get to know you guys well first before doing something special for my friends. A little longer wouldn't hurt anyone right? I have to admit, I'm still a newbie in this blogging matter. So, correct me if I offend any of you. Suggestions are also welcome.

This couple months, I have ventured into so many new blogs whether through my fellow or through a platform called Entrecard. For those who haven't heard about it, it works like a normal business card. You may drop it into others dropping box (like at my right page, FEATURED BLOG) to receive a credit and then buy advertisements for your blog. I have stumbled into so many interesting blogs through this method. Give it a try!


TOP TEN ELEVEN RECOMMENDED BLOGS : (I am much prefer number of 1, 8 or 11 :)

Waliz Diary :
This is a personal blog by an eccentric woman. Be prepared to bedazzle with her attitude and personalities.

Clumsy Mommy :
Read about this young and caring mommy about her life and family matters. Self proclaimed as clumsy, even though most of her readers prefer the word "caring" instead.

Bluedreamer Paradise :
Take a moment to reflect everything from your childhood memories or your favorite cartoons to your favorite songs, all in numbers of FIVE.

Look 4 Dream Girls :
Remembered by its catchy name, the contents there are awesome too. Get to know your favorite International and Asian artists here. This blog will makes you drooling, beware.

Space of Reality :
"Simple thoughts and opinions about life and events". The writer talks about simple things at a higher level. The voice of the writer and its readers are very refreshing and will make you think.

Nisha World and Baby Alisha :
From recipes to celebrities, this blog has it all. View her opinions about what triggers her interest in a well written post.

Wise Up :
A young blogger with an older voice. What a nice combination. Most of the published posts are matured and well researched.

Daisy The Curly Cat :
Blogging in the first point of view of a cat (!), this one of a kind blogger knows too well how to make you smile.

Eavesdropping On Life :
The writer has a very high skill of creative writing. She wrote much of everything that she heard from eavesdropping and makes them interesting to read.

Suburbian Queen :
She wrote them flawlessly. The posts are usually kept short and meaningful. You will guarantee to be longing for the next post.

About Every Little Thing :
"Just a girl with a penchant for stick men drawings blogging about whatever interests her". Well said. Did I mentioned she is funny too? Seriously addictive.


Have you read about these blogs? Tell us your opinions or other interesting blogs that I have missed. I am looking forward for a pleasure to read and commenting on a new blog. You should be too because there is always a new things to discover.
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Hypocrite define as a person who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that he or she does not actually possess, esp. a person whose actions belie stated beliefs. A hypocrite person is one of the most respectable liar alive and his acts are continue to amaze people in century.

If you were to study cases of hypocrisy, I doubt you would find a single person who intended to become a hypocrite. Most people start off with good intentions and along the way their moral values somehow get off track. This is what I call a dancer wearing a mask. The mask may be changed, but once it is broken, your true identity would be revealed. The dancer should know where their limits before stumbling and fall down hard.

The desire to achieves something that is not in our grasp make us sometimes cross the boundary. When people present themselves as moral leaders, they automatically commit themselves to living by a higher standard. Many politicians and leaders branded themselves as hypocrites by failing the most fundamental rule of morality – leadership is made by example.

When I was in high school, Mr. Philips my mathematic teacher, talked to the class about the dangers of smoking. He had good intentions in warning us about smoking, but he compromised his message through a conflicting financial interest.

Because Mr. Philips had previously told the class that he owned stock [through his family] in a tobacco company in Indonesia that had done extremely well for him, he said, “I wouldn’t mind taking a hit on my stock if it meant some of you young folks would not take up the habit.” Because his capital gains were generated by people consuming tobacco, his ethics and stock portfolio were in conflict with each other. How hypocrite is that?

I have a friend who would often say:

“Your actions speak so loudly, I can’t hear a word you say.”

Let me ask you something…Do you practice what you preach? Are your actions consistent with your words? Or you just one of the Venetian dancer?

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