Hello again my fellow readers. As you might have noticed, I haven’t been around the blogsphere last week. I have been busy busting my ass in and out library during office hour, while having dinner and enjoy some quality times with my friends when the night came. I am sorry if you have to endure the constant and continuous (some even deemed it as annoying) updates through my twitter account about where and what am I doing at that period of time; thanks to my current new “game”, “foursquare”. It basically will pin point your current location to your friends.

I rarely talk about what is going on with my daily life, but in this post, I will talk about what had been happening to me these last few days. If any of you who are not comfortable reading this kind of entry, please just skip this post. This week, I have been spending lots of my night life went out with my blogger friends from my university which is Universiti Sains Malaysia (University Science Malaysia, USM). I have known some of these amazing people from my daily encounter around the campus and some of them solely through blogsphere. Thus, one of my friends, YAN^S had made an initiative to organize a blogger event for us.

First Night:
Attendance: The organizer, YAN^S, his partner friends, Nikillas, their friend, Dalila and bluecrystaldude and Lilyto.
Location: McD Juru
Purpose: Just getting to know each other better. YAN^S was my roommate last couple of years.

Second Night:
Attendance: Kak JuLia d buBles, d2z, bluecrystaldude, lilyto, YAN^S, Nikillas, kuro
Location: Mamak Restaurant; Mohamaad Nasi Kandar
Purpose: Planning the venue and date for the Third Night



Third Night:
Attendance: Kak JuLia d buBles, d2z, bluecrystaldude, lilyto, YAN^S, Nikillas, kuro and we also met another USM blogger which is DeeDee
Location: Dinner at Secret Recipe Juru, Supper at McD Juru
Purpose: Having a great time with each other

Some of the Third Night's photos:

We also met DeeDee with his friends there

There are lots of other USM bloggers that were not attending this event. I am sure if we had a chance, we could organize another one in the future. However, my life as a chemical engineering student in the campus almost comes to the end. My last paper will be next week, Monday (26th April 2010) and I will be back to my hometown in Johore on the next weekend. I really cherished the time I had spent here in USM and really thankful for everything that I had learned, stumbled upon, meeting new friends and the unforgettable experiences here. Hopefully, the future in my life will be even better. Enjoy your weekend!

P/S: I am looking forward to meet other bloggers too!

P/S: I will link all these fellow bloggers later. I have to get ready to go out to TGI's Friday with my Final Year Project's supervisor and one of my colleagues! Oh darn, I am getting fatter every night!

First THREE Commenters:

(Whoever won the most First Commenter contests will be featured at the end of the month!)

+ Monica from Turn-u-Off +
+ Mariuca from Mariuca's Perfume Gallery +
+ Gagay from Walking Newspaper +

Bluecrystaldude

If you find this blog is interesting enough, do subscribe to Hot Shit Form Here by Email! I would be very happy!

Continue Reading

I am back! This time is for real! Thanks for all your support and kind words. I will be around your site more often after this! See you later and have a great weekend!!

P/S: I am sorry Mariuca, I still haven't link your site to my last post. I will link it in this post too :) Hope you don't mind Marzie..

First Commenter:

( Whoever won the most First Commenter contests will be featured for a month!)

Bluecrystaldude

If you find this blog is interesting enough, do subscribe to Hot Shit Form Here by Email! I would be very happy!

Continue Reading

There were lots of messes going on in the blogsphere and I was somehow entangled in it. No, I wasn't talking about the Entrecard and its paying ads. Even that I can handle. It's totally different kind of problem. Some of you already know about the problem, but most are not. Even though blogsphere seems like a large place, the truth is it smaller than you expected; especially when you are sharing lots of common readers and commenters with each other. Therefore, I rather not elaborate further on this matter as it may divide this already small community.

That being said, I would like to express my regrets and my sincere apology to Gagay for I might just contribute to her disqualification from one particular contest that she joined. I am truly sorry Gagay.

I will start my final examination tomorrow (13th April 2009) and with all these messes, I am mentally and emotionally exhausted. I haven't been sleeping properly and even when I did, I dreamt about commit suicide or killing someone else. Gosh. Can someone build a time traveling machine for me so that I could just fast forward my life and see what the next two weeks will hold?

Kindly noted: There will be no linky love in this post. I even suspended my first commenter contest for this post. I just don't feel like it. The contest will be back in the next post. Thank you.

P/S: I was slightly disappointed to see that my REAL NAME was revealed to all more than once in the comment section of the host’s contest post. I thought that kind of thing is confidential? Whatever. Sigh.

Bluecrystaldude

If you find this blog is interesting enough, do subscribe to Hot Shit Form Here by Email! I would be very happy!

Continue Reading

Friends are there until the end. They are always being themselves, never to pretend. They are not afraid to be seen with you or ever they betray you. Friends can never tell secrets they promise to keep and they make you feel good about yourself in times of weep. They come and cheer for you at your games, even though you lose, in a friend, there is no shame. Friends are there to listen when you're depressed, because they are the people who know you best. Friends are like presents you open again and again or a puzzle game that never get boring even though you already know all tricks. Friends will always be with you in time of joy and sorrow, through thick and thin.

We need friends for many reasons,all throughout the season.
We need friends to comfort us when we are sad,and to have fun with us when we are glad.
We need friends to give us good advice.
We need someone we can count on,and treat us nice.
We need friends to remember us
one we have passed sharing memories that will always last.

1. Everyday Life 2. Words of Love 3. Sheng's Simple Thoughts . . . 4. Pinay Mom Blogs 5. REALITIES 6. Glossa~licious 7. A Great Pleasure 8.The Spirit of Blogging 9. restnrileks 10. Hot Shit Form Here 11. Next!

Two of my friends tagging me with this beautiful poem. It was from Bonoriau and Jean Chia. (Although it is a tag, I will treat it like a gift or as an award, as it seems precius to be treat like any other tag) I am still a new friends with both of them, so I am quite suprised to actually to received it. Thus, I am giving this poem to all my friends that helping me all this time and thank you for being such a wonderful friend for me.

Tagging GIVING: Arms | Axim | Adawiyah Juzailah | Akmal | Angelbaby | Bluedreamer |Bintang | Bidarlah | Coolingstar | Didi | Kak Emila | Farah Deen | Faisal Admar | Fara | Fishy@ike | Hye | Hafidz | Izzahismail | Izzy | Katunx | Love-n-Hate | Lady Java | Moeha | Mangosteenskin | Mariuca | Nisha | Noemesuff | Nazay | Nikillas | Naimah |Rizal | Ratu Syura | Rozella | Razif | Sweetiepie | Shemah | Shahril Aley | Syazwina | Sid | Smaelz83 | Waliz | Wow | YAN^S | Zara |

Friendship could be found everywhere. Your co-workers, your neighbors, your high school friends, drink buddies and the list getting longer. You could also bond a friendship through blogsphere, where the bloggers around the world share their ideas and personal life. So, my question is, have you ever meet your blogshere’s friends? What did you talk about? How your reaction towards the blogger? Of course, this is only relevant for those whom are not your friends in real life. That being said, do you mind share with us?

If you have to ask me what my stand of point in this matter is, I would say that first of all, I haven’t yet have the opportunity to meet any of my blogger friends. Secondly, I still haven’t decided whether or not it is a great idea to meet someone who may or may not know your life better than any of your real friends are – since you have blogged about most of your life here. Plus, I rather not am thinking on how they would react when they finally meet me. Surprise? (OMFG!) Excited? (OMG! OMG! - If it helps, I could jump and hug you while you are saying it). Anti climax? (Oh…)Happy (Yay?).

But the worst of all, I just afraid that I may not be the person that you pictured based on my writings. Fulfilling others expectation is always being my weakness. Sigh. Perhaps I should not think much about it. And when the time comes and I have the opportunity to meet one of my blogger friends, I will just being myself and speak my ideas rather than writing it on this piece of ‘shit’.

Have a great weekend everyone!

Bluecrystaldude
Continue Reading

Hi, my name is Heejeerah. Some may already read about me in this post done by one of my family, yeah he adores me. So, I am a guest writer for Hot Shit Form Here this month. I live in a small town with a bunch of family members. I would love to tell you guys my top 5 why human is an animal best friend!

1. They never judge me
- Even I haven’t been taken bath for quite some times, I never was accused for the bad smelled in the room. They never knew though that I fart release some air when I had a bad stomachache.

2. They need me as their source of entertainment
- Of course some of them forcibly requited us into some circus or freak show, but they also immortalized us as a superhero. You could see them borrowed our character in Cat woman, Batman or in the Spiderman series. They always wanted to touch their inner animal instinct from time to time whether in form of entertainment or in their sex life.

3. You could always share secrets with them
- I always share mine with them. May be they to dumb to understand it, but at least they never tell anyone what it’s all about. That being said, I am totally into those human secret whisperers. Gossiping is the best way to spend for otherwise a boring day. And they also love to share their secrets with us!

4. They love to touch me
- If only my species could be charged in court, I am sure there are a lot animals out there will sue human kind for sexual harassment. We were cuddled, touched and even grasped in some inappropriate areas. Nevertheless, I also love to hump on their fluffy cushions and sometimes a leg or hand (especially when they were asleep). Well, I guess we are squared then.

5. They care about us
- They cried when we are sick or when we lost. They watched us growing up and treat us like a family member. They even had made a movie or two about the friendship that were shared together right? And that is the main reason why human is an animal best friend!

So, you already have my top 5 Why Human is an Animal Best Friend. But, before I wrap up my post, there is also a reason why I hate human being so much!

I hate her!

PETA
- I hate PETA. Every time I see internet, there she is. With her fake boobs, fake lips and fake ass buttock (click here in case you do not know what buttock means - young people nowadays). I am sure none of my species looks like that. And how many times did she marry already? She was even dashing bad words to my Jessica Simpson. Damn that old lady! Go and do what you done the best!

*Updated* So, let me know why do you think Animal is Man Best Friend? I am sure my friends would love to hear it from you! By the way, I am a single and available bachelor cat. If you think I am attractive, please let me know. You could always leave me a phone number or email here. I am sure Bluecrystaldude will be kind enough to let me know later. Thanks!

HeejeerahContinue Reading

At the end of June, I received an interview questions from Bluedreamer27 who runs Bluedreamer's TOP 5. That was when I knew that my blog, Hot Shit Form Here was The Interesting Blog of The Month - June 2008. Thrilled by the award and with a body temperature almost 40 degree Celsius - I was having a fever, not due to the award acceptance, I replied all the questions as soon and I can and email it back to Bluedreamer. Needless to say, he was then posted it in his monthly blog of the month section and I suddenly felt much better. Although I honestly kind of embarrassed when I reread it again. Do Click Here to Read The Interview.

Some very touchy comments from my fellow bloggers who coincidentally also Bluedreamer's readers are:

"Oh i love being part of bluecrystaldude's blog, he possesses an extraordinary and outstanding personality which i think, everyone will agree.. His sense of humour is also fab, be his friend to know :) I didn’t take the blog's title to heart even at first, my gut instinct told me the blog was clean.. So now i don’t care what people think negative about him! You shouldn’t judge a book by its cover" - Nisha

"congratulations to both dude... u both are awsome..! very genuine and intelligent... btw crystaldude.. i can't wait to read ab yr summer holliday... don't bother what people might think of u... after this is your own blog...! let me know when u post it ok?" - Waliz

"bluecrystaldude's blogs are really interesting. He has his own way of doing things. He voices out something thats true. For example, his recent blog about anger management, he never hide his true feeling. Wish bluecrystaldule success in whatever he does." - Coolingstar9

"Congratulations to you Bluecrystaldude. I know your blog is really hot..." - Hye

Wow! I really need a pinch right now. This award sure will goes well with my Award Gallery. Not wanting to leave my over the moon feeling stop here, I will now present some of you, my personally made award which I haven't been giving for quite some times, You Are Awesome Award! With "Thank you, For doing me a favor by reading my blog. I owe you one" that goes along with it. Sorry because it wasn't so great looking like the usual award, I really can't describe more of my feeling of gratitude other than using words.


I would like to share this award to Bluedreamer - who has been very kind with me and one of the most early readers in my blog, Miss Waliz - who's intelligent always be the best word to describe her, Nisha - a mom with a savvy mom from India, Hye - her words will make you stop doing anything but thinking, Wow - who easily has the hottest blog around here, Akmal - words of his matured more than himself, Sweetiepie - I really miss her and her blog, Angel Baby - with her angelic touch light up your life, Rizal - who the first person who exposed me to Malaysian art sites including my other two art readers, Mangosteenskin and Emila. Mangosteenskin's arts always looking so sincere, relaxing and honest - she usually draws natural things surrounding her while Emila's are bolder and she usually draws very very cute humans and animals.

I also want to give You Are Awesome Award to Noemesuff - who I pretty sure a rocker hidden behind the skin of a mother, to Moeha Aziz - who words of wisdom flowing like a river (I hope still strong as before fighting for his disease), Faisal Admar - who I really enjoy being his friend, Fara - who is a beauty and lazy a pianist, Farah Deen - who talks about her two kids and her adventures life very well (she also loves traveling as I am), Axim - who blogs daily (I always respect people who could post daily posts, I know it's harder than saying it), to Katunx - who has a hand of photographer and a blog full of humors, E-tavasi - a blogger from Sabah, Malaysia who loves to play games and blogs about almost everything, Coolingstar9 - who short posts very mind stimulating and also to Fishy@ike - also is an intellectual thinker like Akmal. I wonder how many other mind blowing bloggers around. They are like an extinct species, I hope they will around more often. A good read always the best way to spend your a day long internet usage.

I also would like to pass this award to Shemah and Ratu Syura - both are really beautiful but one already married (sorry guys), Shahril Aley - who makes me very hungry every time I went to his blog and also to my latest readers (or should I say, commentators because there are some people who prefer just to read rather than commenting), I welcome you with a big hand of hugs (and the Awesome award of course) especially to Hafidz (please continue to write your blog in English), Izzahismail (happy back to college and happy 100th post too!), Adawiyah Juzailah (also happy back to your college life) and love-n-hate (I hope you're getting better from your accident). I also want to share this award to Daisy The Curly Cat - who has a very awesome blog about cat (I know she doesn't comes here often, but love her anyway).

Love to hear more from you in the future. Nothing beat than having a good and responding readers. Countless readers who have spend some of their precious time just to read your blog. Damn I should be grateful. A big and warm thank you from me. I definitely owe you one. Have a great day,

Bluecrystaldude

P/S: Second post in two days even though I am back to my college? Nothing seems could stop me (except a very slow internet connection of course) But I will take time to visit your blog. I have missed out many posts am I?

Continue Reading

Finally. Back to my college and will soon start all over again as a student in my daily life. The months of holiday have actually done me good to face yet another hectic, hormone rising, non syllable words dashing, throat torturing (from the lecturers, of course) and yet another interesting life. After all, student's life is when we spent a big chuck of our dreams and soul. Not to mention the couples of stupid things that we done which we later applaud it or regret. Some of it we done in the name of helping ourselves and other, just to help our friends. I will rather talk about the latter as it would not sound like am all about myself again and again. But don't worry, I will put my personal touch in this post too as I know my life experiences will change your life and the way you will see it. Well, at least 10 seconds (or may be less) after you read this.

Will you do your friend a favor? You should answer the question truthfully and a "Yeah right" is the best answer. It could be the longer "Yeahhhhhh..." follow up with the shorter and end abruptly "right." or the shorter "Yeah, right" and hopefully the more honest version of it. I am not sure if you are getting this, but most of us (a normal person who actually has a real feeling, minus the politicians - yeah, right) will have to endure with this feeling and more guilt that came along with it. You sometime will feel guilty after you agreed to help your best friend to hold his hand through out a monstrous-dentist-appointment that he was afraid damn freaking out, just to noticed that your red and swollen hand the next morning or when you are helping your friend doing something personal until it comes a little bit more personal than you expected. And what they called the term nowadays? Oh yes, "Friend With Benefits".

What I am trying to say is, we all have tried so hard to be the best friend he or she ever had by helping them to do lot of things and yet in some occasion we will feel unappreciated. To make matter worst, we, ourselves also sometimes forgot to acknowledge the helps from our dearest friends. Just a thanks or a friendly hug would mean a lot better for you and your friend. After all, just keep in mind that they may be have done something that isn't so pleasant for themselves in the name of doing a friend a favor. "Will you do your friend a favor?" should be changed to "Are you appreciating your friend's favor?" It is a must done thing to do for a stranger managed to walk into your life and became from a stranger to an acquaintance and then become a friend, and finally in doing so you will keep he or she for the rest of your life.

What are your the most worst or best favor that you have done to your friend? For me, the top five favors are:

1. Checking for my best friend who was also my ex-girlfriend the show time for a romantic movie in cinemas, so that she and her boy friend will have the night for cuddling with each other when watching this movie.
2. Did I mention that when I was in one of the cinemas websites, I was infected by spyware? What a bummer. (The site was later being blocked by Google)
3. Spending a dreadful hour in dentist with my friend I told earlier. He did not rightfully say that he was going to a dentist. He said he wanted to visit a doctor after we back from spending another hour earlier in a coffee house slipping cups of caffeine - which I later learned that he wanted to reduce his nerve activities before the dentist appointment.
4. As a regular offender for this favor, I always keep in my mind to not ever doing it again, but I fail every single time. The big favor is - accompany a girl friend shopping.
5. Letting your friend copying your answer during examination and ended up getting busted. As all of the students in my primary school class knew who the only person in loves Sailor Moon so much that you wrote the questions asking for the answer on a paper with drawings of a full frontal Sailor Moon's character on it. That would be my friend of course and not me. Then she later left the paper laying on the table after the exam just to get picked up by the teacher.
   

So, there you go. Top five favors that I think I won't try to do it again in the future. I am sure hope you don't. Anyway, please share with us some if not all, favors that you have done just in the name of friendship and let us all appreciate it together (and having some laugh in between). Have a great day,

Bluecrystaldude

Continue Reading

Next week, I will start my examination. My exam schedule is quite hectic as I took 7 subjects and have to finish all the exams in 2 weeks! (usually around 3-4 weeks for 5-6 subjects). So, I try to make the most of my study week.

When I study, I love to hear music. It makes me forget how sleepy I was and keep me alerted. So, bored with my mp3 selection, I will tune to local radios. With songs range from rock to classical to bubble gum song that is so sweet until sometimes I was covered with guilt as it makes me feel like a pervert peeping under age kids (!). Seriously, what do you feel when listening to lyric like this;

I dream driving a space ship crossing the galaxy to find love There are many super heroes that I met Hot and tough far from the reality I dream jumping from sky to sky sweet like a cotton candy suddenly came a hero from above and he thinks I am an angel

Plus, something sound like "Pop... Pop.. Pop.." here and there. Well, maybe not that bad and I did intentionally mistranslated couple of words. But I do enjoy its music. Click here to read the lyric of the real Malay song.

And one of local radio here has a segment where you could ask anyone to be your date live on air. Although some said that it was so pathetic and Malaysian people are too shy to send their entry, I do managed to collect some of the interesting entries here:

Case 1:
A woman who wants to date her new close friend. She said that they both have flirted for quite a while, and thus, she wanted to know how he feels towards her.

The result:

He said, he was only flirting with her because one of his friend said that this woman is womanizer, promiscuous, always flirting with men (or in Malay, we called her as 'gedik'). Considering it was played on air, the woman did get mad and teet, toot, tettt (censored) she demanded back her perfume and all her gifts to him (Aiyo. Buruk siku maa..) The oh-I-just-play-with-her-man replied by using words from Beyonce's To The Left by saying, it's already in the box, waiting to go (to the left, to the left..)

My opinion:

What goes round did comes around. Just pity her for getting back the karma with million listener hear it live on air.

Case 2:
This young male was on the show once. The last time, he tried to date his colleague, but was rejected. They said maybe because he is fat. This time, a girl participated in the show and wants to date her! She said, he was very nice with her. One day, her car broke down, and this gentlemen help her to send her car to workshop and even offered to take her to the college!

The result and my opinion:
As the says go, Fat person does has a big heart (forgive me for my language). And this time, the boy accepted her date with an open arms. He is so nice!

Case 3:
He has known her for 17 years and one day, he woke up and think that she was so nice to her and why they didn't date each other. So, he called this radio to ask her to go to a date with him.

The result:
She bluntly rejected him! She prefer their relationship stays as they are, as a close friend.

My opinion:
It's not a news when you suddenly fall in love with your close friend. I was trapped into this matter once ( At least I not asking her for a date on the national radio). We tried to date each other. But the feeling of love is not there. So, in the end, we both decided to called it off and continue as a friend. We still cherish our relationship now and laugh about our dates as we remembered them.

Case 4:
They have been a couple for quite sometimes since college. Then, she wanted to marry him. However, her boyfriend didn't think it was a good idea. He still not financially stable and she also hasn't found herself a job. Nevertheless, they still be a pair. However, it takes a turn several months later. She got a nice job in Singapore. She moved there, and being busy with her career life. It has been 3 days she hasn't replied his calls, text messages and even his instant messages through MSN. So, he called the radio with an intention to propose to her!

The result:
The good point is, she was very professional in her words. She refused to answer the question from the DJs when they asked her whether she still a single or not ("I refused to answer the question as it may be used against me in the future". One of the DJ jokes about whether she is a lawyer, but she just left the DJ cold and dry). Later, when his boyfriend asked her to marry him, she refused his offer of hand. She wanted to focus on her new launch career. He cried and asked her not to answer his question right now. It was really dramatic and emotional.

My opinion:
Pheew man! I don't think you should asked her live on the radio. At least not when she refused to answer all you attempts to contact her. I don't even think it's a romantic thing to do. Yes, she once wanted you to marry her, but the situation has changed, and when women start focused on something, they will stick to it until she satisfied (my mum said that)

Ok, the show does sometimes goes a little bit to far. But I guess, it's good for the rating. Not to mention you could listen to some of the most funny calls, for example a man who introduce himself to his future date as "a hot guy wearing a spectacle" or "your Jonny Benny". All in all, I did managed to stay alive through my study week, thanks to a funny dose (and sometimes drama) from the radio.

So, what do you think about all those calls? Does it appropriate to ask someone to date through radio? And whether it is a romantic thing to do? (I don't mind taking part in the show if it's o9ne of many ways to show my romantic side)

Have a nice day my readers. And remember, do not to ask any stranger or your friend for a date with you if you're not confident enough to say, "Hey, I am hot, and I wanna have a date with you!".

Bluecrystaldude

Continue Reading

I am sorry for my absence
I was on a hectic schedule. Juggling between organizing a THE prom night for my seniors and finishing my assignment projects which required me to acts. Yes, I know. I am hopping to win my first Oscar soon too. The prom night is not a typical prom night. It has a Classical Traditional theme and there will no embarrassing dance happen that night. In fact, there will no dancing at all! The event will be on Thursday night. Finger cross and hope everything went well.

I am sorry for being neglectful
Not being able to do any tags in this near future and still haven't officially thanks my fellow blogger who gave me awards last week. Thanks Angelbaby, Bluedreamer, Hye and Nisha. No words could describe my gratefulness. You could see all my awards shown by the slide show on your right hand side.

I am sorry for my lack of commenting and dropping
For missed out lots of my regular visited blogs and sites. Even though I am not commenting as usual, just remember I pay you a visit. On the other hand, the result from my lack of entrecard dropping, has made my blog advertising price drop more than half of its price (from 6+ ec to 2+ ec). It's not a problem to me as I don't really received any real money from it (ec is money currency in entrecard). But do visit my featured blog also on the right hand side of you. They are interesting and definitely deserved your visit.

I am sorry for not posting any post, yet
I already wrote several posts in my draft, but still haven't managed to complete them yet. I am not the kind of person who just post anything in his blog. I want to make sure it deserves a proper research and content. Yes, I have read the qualities of a good writer blogger :)

I hope everything will flow smoothly in your life. I certainly hope that mine does. Have a nice day. Thanks for being patience. Tell me about your week will you?

blucrystaldude

Continue Reading

Warning! This post may content a lot of pictures. Drink your coffee for awhile, sit back and enjoy the loading. Sorry for the inconvenient.

This post is about everything that worth and has meaning for me (and I hope you as well) in this Valentine's day.

Awards and appreciations that I received this week:This beautiful red Valentine's ribbon was given by mr_viruz at his In My Mind blog. Nice isn't it? Remind me of [RED] ( created by Bono and Bobby Shriver, to raise awareness and money for The Global Fund by teaming up with the world's most iconic brands to produce (PRODUCT)RED branded products and the money from it sell will helps women and children affected by HIV/AIDS in Africa) Seems like red will be my favorite color for the time being.

This friendship gift was from Bluedreamer from Bluedreamer Paradise who spreading some love to his friends. And the words goes along with it is "Friendship is a light in the darkness". This love love in the air week makes me appreciate how wonderful to have everyone that I cared around me.
The first ever award from Wow from Look 4 Dream Girls blog. All those little hearts were amazing. I wonder why Wow chose my heart to be solid like that. Ha ha. Love it!

I almost miss out this award from my new friend, mangosteenskin from her self tittle blog, mangosteenskin. Her blog is amazing! Full of pictures beautiful and creative pictures. Do check her out!

My best definition of LOVE:

I don't know exactly the definition of love, but I do know what everything that love is not. Love is not about chemistry because if it does, your partner could treat you like a toxic waste. Love is not blind, it just that when you are in love, you couldn't see everything clearly. You should not blame gravitation when you're falling in love. Love is not a seed. It is a root. Every time you taught you have cut all the feeling off with your partner, it always grows back. There is no such thing as 'sea of love', because if it does, I will always the first one to drown. Love is not sweet as candy. It tastes bitter sometimes. - bluecrystaldude in Killing Two Love Birds With One Stone

The best personalized gift on Valentine's day :
Ha ha. I found this idea from mangosteenskin. I told you she's creative. It comes along with a text message, "You can't delete this message, I LOVE YOU". It reminds me at Nokia 3310, used to be an old but reliable hand phone. My friends and I always joking around bout how big the phone is and if we throw it at a dog, a dog will die. I guess, if we throw this gift, a dog will die too, seriously.

My Award to YOU:

Thanks to my fellow bloggers and my friends, who made my Valentine's day a worth to remember. This post supposedly publish this morning (14 FEB 2008) but I just finish one of my test this evening. Plus, my little present is taking me quite some times to wrap it. So, here it comes, my Valentine's Present to you guys:
A love made from all my blog links name. I called it PIECES OF MY HEART AWARD. Ha ha. I know it sound silly, but I can't think off anything else right now. Nevertheless, all these blogs are really made up my heart. I don't usually adding any blog to my link. I only add those that interest me. So, I generously give this award to all those interesting blogs (with no specific orders.CLICK MORE TO SEE THE BLOGS NAME ) :


1. About Every Little Thing 2. antibarbie.net 3. Clumsy Mummy 4. Daisy the Curly Cat 5. Eavesdropping 6. Hall of Fame 7. jimi wiser 8. Look 4 Dream Girls 9. My Hush Place 10. My Love Hub 11. My Thought on Stuff 12. myAsylum 13. Nisha World and Baby Alisha 14. rest n rileks 15. Space of Reality 16. Suburbian Queen 17. Waliz Diary 18. Wiseup 19. Your Caring Angels 20. Heaven Layout 21. The Other Eden 22. Etavasi 23. It’s me Just me N us 24. odds and end of marco 25. Mangosteenskin 26. The Selfish Bastard 27. purplefrogcat 28. Life 29. ClickdTalk 30. MUNDANE 31. Nerdy-Fred 32. My Sweet Escape 33. Petty Ramblings of a Petty Queen 34. ahkong.net 35. Moscow in My Heart 36. Syamsulariff.com 37. MohdIsmail.com 37. Another Blog of Mine 38. APIZ.net 39. Bulan Dengarlah Ceritaku 40. Ruang Legar Mohd Hafifi 41. Maharaja Pujangga Bujang Lara 42. Beautiful Journey 43. Cintai Cinta 44. Framestone Alchemist 45. Spread The Love 46. Suara Sang Minda 47. Tgk dgn Otak. Fikir Luar Otak 48. idd fotopages 49. Aku Betul 50. AMENTE 51. Elaneman.com 52. Bullets of Quill and Ink 53. InfoMalaya.com 54. Information of All The Resources 55. Deannasour Punya Cara 56. Kah Kah Kah 57. HafifiDotBlogspot 58. Ranting by MM 59. Malaysia Student 60. Humor Collection 61. Semusim di Neraka 62. Sempadan Sukun 63. Where the Walls are Soft 64. Just about anything and everything under the sun 65. A Moonlight Rendezvous 66. Temerity Jane 67. Turnip Power 68. My Thermos 69. Everything Everywhere Travel Blog 70. I’m not that girl anymore 71. Feeling Flirty 72. A Ferie’s Tale 73. Millioniare Secrets 75. Secret of Mind 76. Jackbook.com 77. GorillaShushi 78. Blog and Money 79. Random Views From The Subconcius Mind 80. Let Peace Inspire You 81. All Men Are Liars 82. maleadvicecolumn 83. le Trash 84. Monday Arts 85. Emila’s Illustrated Blog 86. We Blog Cartoons 87. I am Still Here

(can't individually inform all of you that I give you this award because if you haven't seen it, it really a lot of blogs)

I am sorry as the heart looks like a little weird (the upper one seems too big and it is not symmetrical) and if I did miss out some blogs or misspelled it. But as someone says, "a gift that comes from a heart is the best gift of all. No matter how imperfect it was". Opst.. wait, I think that someone is me. Happy Valentine's Day.

bluecrystaldude
Continue Reading

Giving is better than receiving because giving start the receiving process - Jim Rohn

I am sure most of us have heard the line, "it is better to give than to receive". However, in my opinion, the giving and receiving hand has the same functionality. It just like your right and left hands. It may has a different functions but the main aim is to be part of your body. Analogically, for me, giving a blog award and receiving it has the same function; to encourage other blogger to strive for more as it is a form of appreciation and encouragement.

I have been the receiving end of this matter for sometimes. I love being appreciated. At least you know that your readers really read and enjoy your blog. As matter of fact, I have received 3 form of appreciations when I am on my short holiday.

The first one was from Angelbaby from Your Caring Angels, sending me a Friend Award. The second one was from Mr Viruz from Hall of Fame, showing his sign of appreciation acknowledgment to his friends, and the third one was from Hye from Space of Reality. She gave me her sign of gratitude for being her friend. Thanks to all. [You could see all those awards at the right side of my page]

As usual, I don't like to be the same as others, so I invented my own awards just like Hye.

The first award is the Addictive Blog Award. In a simple words, blogs that I will come at a regular basis. [I prefer a notification by email compared to other social bookmarkers. It's more convenience for a subscriber to check your updates] So, my Addictive Blog Award goes to:

Antibarbie.net
About Every Little Thing
Suburbian Queen
Nisha World and Baby Alisha
Look 4 Dream Girls
Eavesdropping

Laughter is some all form of supplement that I need to make my day. I enjoy reading those blogs because the contents and the comments are funny, I mean really really funny. Needless to say, it's rare to find as a fixed phone nowadays. Thus, my Freaking Funny Blog Award goes to:

About Every Little Thing
Daisy the Curly Cat

The Professor's Blog Award is for those highly-intellectual-composed blog. It requires you to think. That been said you don't have to be a professor to read it. I wonder what a professor will read about through a blog? Must be some sort DNA replication and stuff. Prepare yourself to discover more about your thinking skills when you're entering these blogs:

Space of Reality
My Hush Space
Wise Up
My Thoughts on Stuff

And my last award, the Amazing Award goes to my faithful commenters and readers, that make me looking forward to hear their opinion every time I publish a new post. Thank you so much! My blog can't survive without you! [P/S: I got so many wonderful readers, so I have to limit my usage of Cupid's spreading love ability to only five most well behaved blogs]

Clumsy Mummy
Your Caring Angels
Hall of Fame
My Love Hub
Waliz Diary

I hope these awards will trigger undiscovered potentials in you and sharpen your current skills of blogging.

Cheers,

bluecrystaldude

Continue Reading

I have been tag by Waliz. My opinion about love and hate is like blind and deaf. It makes some parts of me incapable and cannot function well. *sigh*

Love:

• Being appreciated

• Being different from others

• Smiling and being smile back

• money and spending it (I done this part quite well, until I am impressed)

• Gossiping about others

Hate:

• Being gossiped back

• People forcing me to do something

• abide to rules (rules are meant to be broken right?)

• backstabber (especially done by your 'friend')
  

• being underestimated

"It is to the credit of human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates. Hatred, by a gradual and quiet process, will even be transformed to love." ~ Nathaniel Hawthorne, The Scarlet Letter
Continue Reading

This was supposed to be an ordinary day.

Friend A : Do you heard about the latest gossip? (in a very loud and disturbing voice)

Friend B : Oh, it's freaking hot story! How did you not know? (rather as an announcement)

My curious voice : Hey, Hey, what are you guys talking about?

Friend A : Hah! This fella is not updated yet lah!
My curious voice : Ok, just shoot me
Friend B : There are new hot pictures in our student sharing network! Here, I already downloaded all of them and even use this picture as my handphone's wallpaper! (sliding his Nokia Expressing Music phone)
My curious voice : My GOD! I know this girl! (and literally jumping in my chair) I must bluetooth them!

Do you understand the conversation above? I hope you do but just in case you misinterpreted this youthful dialogs, may I do the honor to make them clear to you. We just found out the next big thing to be proud off with our university, we also have the naked pictures being exposed in the internet! Yes, yes I know. Now, the modern trend has arrived in our university. Feeling proud of it? Why not?

Just as long it is not my explicit picture circulating in students storage, there should be not problem at all. - quote from an innocent student

I spent most of the lecture that day wondering whether the girl already know her pictures are in the hand of other four thousand plus students. What would she does after this? Can I still see her playing netball every evening from now on? Or she will be forced to stop her study? Only time can tell.

That is the problem when you are sending your personal pictures to others in a conscience of believing the best from everyone. Especially when you are in love with that person who may only use this for his/her own advantage. Love as we all know will not always end with a happy ending.

However, this also make me to think, what if you already sent your naked pictures to irresponsible hands? If I were you, I will have a water marks on those pictures which stated my url (http://hot-shit-form.blogspot.com/). At least, you will be famous and earn hundreds of new visitors. Even lucky, thousands of them. I read about this technique in the Become Famous For Dummies book. You should check it out!

What if you just love your body so much that you are cannot help but to take your own pictures? (I done that couples of time too) If you have a hot body, why not you flaunt it? After all, a picture is worth a thousand words.

I already made my point about this matter in Naked, nude, stripped and sex. Just a remainder, it was only my opinion.

"The fear that seeing naked people in some way harms children is not supported, however, by academic research. The small handful of studies on this topic in psychology and sociology have shown, instead, that children reared in an atmosphere containing family social nudity may benefit from the practice." -Mark Storey in Children, Social Nudity and Scholarly Study

One thing for sure is that when your explicit pictures or videos start being passing around, famous and important person will suffer the most. For example, Malaysia Health Minister has to step down after a sex video with his 'personal friend' was sold in the black market. (click here to read more) He was later apologies for his indecent behavior, but his political career has came to the end. Others like Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson, the video will only just help them shot to fame.

If your pictures are posted in internet, how do you react? Does it wrong to send your naked pictures to others? And whether the responsible person who posted those pictures in the internet is bad? How about people (like me) who help to distribute them to other friends? Moreover, what about self obsess person who just like to take pictures of their body? Some people said that these people are socially dysfunctional, do you agree with them?

Now, I need to rest my head down. I hope that you will answer those questions because right now I must reformat my thought. Not every day is like today. And this was supposed to be an ordinary day. *sigh*


Related Post:

• Naked, nude, stripped and sex
  

Picture was taken from : AllPosters.com

Continue Reading

I could write you a letter,
But what would it say?
Could it make things better?
Would it make everything okay?

I could write you a song,
Full of love hope and grace.
Would you tell me what went wrong?
Could you say it to my face?

What is a friend? We all know a lot of people, we call them acquaintances. We work with a lot of people, mostly referred to as co-workers. We also have come across colleagues, classmates, roommates, neighbors and even family! What, then, makes them stand out as a friend? What promotes them to the next level?

Could it be time? If you have known someone since elementary school, and you are now a college graduate, is that person a friend? Does time automatically decide ones status? Even if you only share festive cards once a year? Are they still a friend due to their 'renewal of friendship' once a year at holidays? Is their holiday card simply a way to tell the other person, that you are still in the game, therefore still your friend? And is this done, so that in the future, if you need something this friend has to offer, you can tell them that you are their oldest friend, so you owe me? What are old friends for?

The tender words are spoken
Each body and soul bared
Told secrets over endless days
Often doing more than dared

New world beyond my door
With intrigued and intensity
Now we have shared our hearts
A bond now made it permanently

My greatest fear that I will lost most of my memories about my oldest friends. Some of them are still well keep, but others are deteriorating away. It was like my new memories of friends keep pushing my old memories far back in my vault of mind. I miss their presence but it was like ages ago. I afraid to call or meet them because I don't think we will have anything to talk about. But I do know one thing, I will do whatever it takes to keep them inside.

It took us little time and effort
The bonding as strong as glue
I now promise never to untie
The strings I have tied with you

The understanding of each other
Breaths to take, we breathe the air
As the relationship interchanges
Knowing our loving hearts are there

I have met a lot of friends from my heavily involve what so called online networking sites through Myspace, Facebook, Friendster and a lot more less famous sites. Adding all of them together, I believe it will accumulates more than 3000 friends.

We are usually 'friends' with them every time we're online, have their screen names on instant messenger but rarely IM them, and you would stop and talk with them for a few minutes if you ran into them on the street somewhere randomly (like, 'whoa, what are you up to these days? ahhh, cool! cya!'), but you wouldn't take the time to have coffee or dinner with them. But do all of them you call friends? No, we call them good acquaintances. You only meet them in cyberspace but you wouldn't really have anything to talk to them about if you are not in a large social setting.

The greatest Gift,
in the end
was a family
and a Friend.
An ear to lend
a hand to hold,
and you,
my Friend -
your heart of gold.

Finally, I have finished this post. It does took me a lot of time (plus, I suddenly got a fever couple days before) but I hope it will makes you to think and asking yourself, how do you define a friend??


Poems taken from :

• Promise Never To Untie by Hope
• I could by Kaunie Hagensen
• The Greatest Gift by Daisy

Continue Reading