Finally. Back to my college and will soon start all over again as a student in my daily life. The months of holiday have actually done me good to face yet another hectic, hormone rising, non syllable words dashing, throat torturing (from the lecturers, of course) and yet another interesting life. After all, student's life is when we spent a big chuck of our dreams and soul. Not to mention the couples of stupid things that we done which we later applaud it or regret. Some of it we done in the name of helping ourselves and other, just to help our friends. I will rather talk about the latter as it would not sound like am all about myself again and again. But don't worry, I will put my personal touch in this post too as I know my life experiences will change your life and the way you will see it. Well, at least 10 seconds (or may be less) after you read this.

Will you do your friend a favor? You should answer the question truthfully and a "Yeah right" is the best answer. It could be the longer "Yeahhhhhh..." follow up with the shorter and end abruptly "right." or the shorter "Yeah, right" and hopefully the more honest version of it. I am not sure if you are getting this, but most of us (a normal person who actually has a real feeling, minus the politicians - yeah, right) will have to endure with this feeling and more guilt that came along with it. You sometime will feel guilty after you agreed to help your best friend to hold his hand through out a monstrous-dentist-appointment that he was afraid damn freaking out, just to noticed that your red and swollen hand the next morning or when you are helping your friend doing something personal until it comes a little bit more personal than you expected. And what they called the term nowadays? Oh yes, "Friend With Benefits".

What I am trying to say is, we all have tried so hard to be the best friend he or she ever had by helping them to do lot of things and yet in some occasion we will feel unappreciated. To make matter worst, we, ourselves also sometimes forgot to acknowledge the helps from our dearest friends. Just a thanks or a friendly hug would mean a lot better for you and your friend. After all, just keep in mind that they may be have done something that isn't so pleasant for themselves in the name of doing a friend a favor. "Will you do your friend a favor?" should be changed to "Are you appreciating your friend's favor?" It is a must done thing to do for a stranger managed to walk into your life and became from a stranger to an acquaintance and then become a friend, and finally in doing so you will keep he or she for the rest of your life.

What are your the most worst or best favor that you have done to your friend? For me, the top five favors are:

1. Checking for my best friend who was also my ex-girlfriend the show time for a romantic movie in cinemas, so that she and her boy friend will have the night for cuddling with each other when watching this movie.
2. Did I mention that when I was in one of the cinemas websites, I was infected by spyware? What a bummer. (The site was later being blocked by Google)
3. Spending a dreadful hour in dentist with my friend I told earlier. He did not rightfully say that he was going to a dentist. He said he wanted to visit a doctor after we back from spending another hour earlier in a coffee house slipping cups of caffeine - which I later learned that he wanted to reduce his nerve activities before the dentist appointment.
4. As a regular offender for this favor, I always keep in my mind to not ever doing it again, but I fail every single time. The big favor is - accompany a girl friend shopping.
5. Letting your friend copying your answer during examination and ended up getting busted. As all of the students in my primary school class knew who the only person in loves Sailor Moon so much that you wrote the questions asking for the answer on a paper with drawings of a full frontal Sailor Moon's character on it. That would be my friend of course and not me. Then she later left the paper laying on the table after the exam just to get picked up by the teacher.
   

So, there you go. Top five favors that I think I won't try to do it again in the future. I am sure hope you don't. Anyway, please share with us some if not all, favors that you have done just in the name of friendship and let us all appreciate it together (and having some laugh in between). Have a great day,

Bluecrystaldude

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Next week, I will start my examination. My exam schedule is quite hectic as I took 7 subjects and have to finish all the exams in 2 weeks! (usually around 3-4 weeks for 5-6 subjects). So, I try to make the most of my study week.

When I study, I love to hear music. It makes me forget how sleepy I was and keep me alerted. So, bored with my mp3 selection, I will tune to local radios. With songs range from rock to classical to bubble gum song that is so sweet until sometimes I was covered with guilt as it makes me feel like a pervert peeping under age kids (!). Seriously, what do you feel when listening to lyric like this;

I dream driving a space ship crossing the galaxy to find love There are many super heroes that I met Hot and tough far from the reality I dream jumping from sky to sky sweet like a cotton candy suddenly came a hero from above and he thinks I am an angel

Plus, something sound like "Pop... Pop.. Pop.." here and there. Well, maybe not that bad and I did intentionally mistranslated couple of words. But I do enjoy its music. Click here to read the lyric of the real Malay song.

And one of local radio here has a segment where you could ask anyone to be your date live on air. Although some said that it was so pathetic and Malaysian people are too shy to send their entry, I do managed to collect some of the interesting entries here:

Case 1:
A woman who wants to date her new close friend. She said that they both have flirted for quite a while, and thus, she wanted to know how he feels towards her.

The result:

He said, he was only flirting with her because one of his friend said that this woman is womanizer, promiscuous, always flirting with men (or in Malay, we called her as 'gedik'). Considering it was played on air, the woman did get mad and teet, toot, tettt (censored) she demanded back her perfume and all her gifts to him (Aiyo. Buruk siku maa..) The oh-I-just-play-with-her-man replied by using words from Beyonce's To The Left by saying, it's already in the box, waiting to go (to the left, to the left..)

My opinion:

What goes round did comes around. Just pity her for getting back the karma with million listener hear it live on air.

Case 2:
This young male was on the show once. The last time, he tried to date his colleague, but was rejected. They said maybe because he is fat. This time, a girl participated in the show and wants to date her! She said, he was very nice with her. One day, her car broke down, and this gentlemen help her to send her car to workshop and even offered to take her to the college!

The result and my opinion:
As the says go, Fat person does has a big heart (forgive me for my language). And this time, the boy accepted her date with an open arms. He is so nice!

Case 3:
He has known her for 17 years and one day, he woke up and think that she was so nice to her and why they didn't date each other. So, he called this radio to ask her to go to a date with him.

The result:
She bluntly rejected him! She prefer their relationship stays as they are, as a close friend.

My opinion:
It's not a news when you suddenly fall in love with your close friend. I was trapped into this matter once ( At least I not asking her for a date on the national radio). We tried to date each other. But the feeling of love is not there. So, in the end, we both decided to called it off and continue as a friend. We still cherish our relationship now and laugh about our dates as we remembered them.

Case 4:
They have been a couple for quite sometimes since college. Then, she wanted to marry him. However, her boyfriend didn't think it was a good idea. He still not financially stable and she also hasn't found herself a job. Nevertheless, they still be a pair. However, it takes a turn several months later. She got a nice job in Singapore. She moved there, and being busy with her career life. It has been 3 days she hasn't replied his calls, text messages and even his instant messages through MSN. So, he called the radio with an intention to propose to her!

The result:
The good point is, she was very professional in her words. She refused to answer the question from the DJs when they asked her whether she still a single or not ("I refused to answer the question as it may be used against me in the future". One of the DJ jokes about whether she is a lawyer, but she just left the DJ cold and dry). Later, when his boyfriend asked her to marry him, she refused his offer of hand. She wanted to focus on her new launch career. He cried and asked her not to answer his question right now. It was really dramatic and emotional.

My opinion:
Pheew man! I don't think you should asked her live on the radio. At least not when she refused to answer all you attempts to contact her. I don't even think it's a romantic thing to do. Yes, she once wanted you to marry her, but the situation has changed, and when women start focused on something, they will stick to it until she satisfied (my mum said that)

Ok, the show does sometimes goes a little bit to far. But I guess, it's good for the rating. Not to mention you could listen to some of the most funny calls, for example a man who introduce himself to his future date as "a hot guy wearing a spectacle" or "your Jonny Benny". All in all, I did managed to stay alive through my study week, thanks to a funny dose (and sometimes drama) from the radio.

So, what do you think about all those calls? Does it appropriate to ask someone to date through radio? And whether it is a romantic thing to do? (I don't mind taking part in the show if it's o9ne of many ways to show my romantic side)

Have a nice day my readers. And remember, do not to ask any stranger or your friend for a date with you if you're not confident enough to say, "Hey, I am hot, and I wanna have a date with you!".

Bluecrystaldude

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I watched Dan in Real Life and 27 Dresses this week. Both of the movies are standing on the same foot, LOVE. However, this is not quite 'normal' love story. Not that they are homosexual love story, it just that both main characters are in love with the same person his/her younger brother/sister loves. Well, we cannot blame them. Love is indeed blind. Poor little thing.

What if this happen to you? You're falling in love with someone that is very much loved by your brother or sister. Should you just tell your brother that you're in love with his girlfriend and asking him to back off? Or you will watch your sister married with the love that you believe is your true love?

Do you willing to sacrifice for your family? Or you should rather tell your brother/sister you love his/her lover?

Should be noted, that the lover also love you too (or still in the 'like' stage). Not for the one direction feeling :D

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Do you remember February 1993 in England , when a young boy of 3 was taken from a Liverpool shopping centre by two 10-year-old boys? Jamie Bulger walked away from his mother for only a second, Jon Venables took his hand and led him out of the mall with his friend Robert Thompson. They took Jamie on a walk for over 2 and a half miles, along the way stopping every now and again to torture the poor little boy who was crying constantly for his mummy. Finally they stopped at a railway track where they brutally kicked him, threw stones at him, rubbed paint in his eyes, pushed batteries up his anus and cut his fingers off with scissors. Other mutilations were inflicted but not reported in the press. -Extracted from an email posted at ClickdTalk

I can't believe it. Parents nowadays are taking care their children very lightly. Especially in Malaysia wonder wonderland. And it has been a trend here!. Don't believe it? Click HERE to read more. And HERE too. And HERE.

You want to have kids as quick as possible (Wah! Already two kids? How long you two have been married? Oh, it was just like yesterday, seriously, yesterday). After that you sometimes and somehow, managed to be busy enough and forget that you have kids. Sound cruel? Hey, when was a trend is not cruel? Don't worry, before you ever blink, the trend will be gone.. I hope.

Parenting skills of young parents are seems to be deteriorated (caution, not me who saying it). So, when their child lost on her way to a market,why don't we torcered the parent more? Jail sound good to me (definitely not me). That is what I could recalled when the Minister of Women, Family and Community of Malaysia has suggested one of the proposed laws when the breakdown of Nurin Jazlin's case surface in the local media.

I thought that the parent has suffered enough and the main criminal should be the unknown assailant, suspected to be a psychopath killer? Sadly enough, that person is still live freely till this day. Well, when your Health Minister former Health Minister has a sex scandal video surfacing the internet, what more did you expect?

I would like to ask your opinion on the best way to handle this situation. Jail the parents as they are the one who neglect them? Are the parents is the only problem here? So, in this love, love in the air month, spare some of your love to those kids who have been lost, to their parents that are waiting with hope mounting high and to the ordinary citizens like you and me who plainly care.

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I have been twice tagged by mr_viruz at his In My Mind blog and the other one is from Noctural Blogger's Introspect. The second one is actually some sort of contest and somehow, I have been invited to enter. Truth need to be told, I never enter any contest online or what so ever. It always occur to me that my winning strike doesn't lucky enough to get me winning. Nor that I have enough courage to face the anderaline rush. Nevertheless, it's easier for me to answer questions rather than to make up the whole love story and than get embarrassed by it. So, I guess I will kill two birds with one stone. The questions are:

1. Would you celebrate this coming Valentines or not?
2. What do you like most about your partner?
3. What do you think does your partner like most about you?
4. How did you and your special someone meet?
5. What's the most romantic thing your partner ever did for you?
6. If you are single, what do you miss about being in a relationship?
7. And the final question, of course, what is your definition of love?

Before answering it, I just recently have a spartan fight with my partner. And after battling with other 300 war warriors, I end up with a bleeding heart. To recover my war like love story, I intend to built up entirely imaginary partner in love. [You are supposedly could not read the last line of this paragraph. If you do manage to read it somehow, please seek your doctor's advice]

My honest answers for those questions:

1. Of course, why shouldn't I?

2. She was my strength when I was weak, she was my voice when I couldn't speak, she was my eyes when I couldn't see, she saw the best was in me, lifted me up when I couldn't reach and she gave me faith 'coz she believed. I am everything I am because she loves me. [any similarity with Celine Dion's Because you love me song is purely coincident]

3. For all those times I stood by her (sometimes she's lazy enough to stand on her own feet), for all the truth that I made her see (usually related with shopping bizzire), for all the joy I brought to her life (and in rare condition, sorrow), for all the wrong that I made right (she always says I am a busy body person, but I received it with an open heart), for every dream I made come true (after all, she told anyone who want to listen, every single dream she had), and for all the love she found in me (sometimes I hide it in my secret pocket in my short, but she found that too!)

4. I met her at my ball, held in one of my castle in Malaysia. After she heard about the ball, she managed to sneak out from her evil step mother and two step sisters with a help from a tooth fairy. From the first moment I saw her stumble down the main stairs, I fall in love with her. Unfortunately, her has to go after the Big Ben struck 12. However, her Blackberry fallen from her dress. The rest was history.

5. Leave me alone for the whole week so that I could catching up with my buddies. How thoughtful of her.

6. If and only if I am single, what I will miss the most is all those complicated and emotion instability of my partner. I don't have any problem handling mine but not my partner. Thanks for the 'woman problem' that come faithfully every month.

7. I don't know exactly the definition of love, but I do know what everything that love is not. Love is not about chemistry because if it does, your partner could treat you like a toxic waste. Love is not blind, it just that when you are in love, you couldn't see everything clearly. You should not blame gravitation when you're falling in love. Love is not a seed. It is a root. Every time you taught you have cut all the feeling off with your partner, it always grows back. There is no such thing as 'sea of love', because if it does, I will always the first one to drown. Love is not sweet as candy. It tastes bitter sometimes.

Hope you have everlasting love to cater all the love rush this week month. Happy Valentine's Day.

bluecrytsaldude

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I have been tag by Waliz. My opinion about love and hate is like blind and deaf. It makes some parts of me incapable and cannot function well. *sigh*

Love:

• Being appreciated

• Being different from others

• Smiling and being smile back

• money and spending it (I done this part quite well, until I am impressed)

• Gossiping about others

Hate:

• Being gossiped back

• People forcing me to do something

• abide to rules (rules are meant to be broken right?)

• backstabber (especially done by your 'friend')
  

• being underestimated

"It is to the credit of human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates. Hatred, by a gradual and quiet process, will even be transformed to love." ~ Nathaniel Hawthorne, The Scarlet Letter
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Damp it.. Bebaru nih, aku diuliti dengan kecemburuan yg melampau!

• first my undying jealousy for my xgf
• second pasal jealous dgn kawan2 aku yg kat oversea

FIRST, let make it clear. It seyesly not me who start flirting with my xgf, IZ [not the real name]. Die yang start koling2 dulu. Aku pun dgn gf skrang nih still in "OK" relationship lagih [which mean not to boring, not to deeply in puppy love either]. karang kalu aku tak reply or jawab koling IZ karang die marah+merajuk plak. ish2.. pastu die msg2, komen2 kt friendster, koling2, etc. etc... pastu, suddenly bf die nak marah2 aku plak.. budget orang nak amek awek die ar..cheh.. [i still love her though. huhu]

You know I'd fight the good fight
If I thought I'd change your mind
But if he makes you happy
I would leave that dream behind
Man, he better treat you right
And give you everything
Cause at the moment he doesn't
I'll be waiting in the wings

SECONDLY, yang pasal kawan2 aku nih plak. seyes aku jeles tgk gambo2 diorang kt obersea. Ye ar. aku pun slalu gak g obersea [ehem2..hehe ;P], tp it still doesn't seems setanding dgn diorang. Padahal, dulu tym kt matric, dgn skula, bukan nyer diorang pandai sgt pun. Pastu dah g obersea punye ar berlagak cam tuttt... Damp it! Sekarang ni cam aku plak yg tak setarap dgn diorang.. waaa...


Crying my heart out, [red_blood]


PS: i just hope that i will never be in the news just like this fella : Jealous boyfriend guns down 32

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